ReDefine Relationship Coaching

How to Reconnect in a Relationship (Without Losing Yourself Again)

2025/02/18

You’ve done the healing. You’ve rebuilt your identity. But suddenly, in a relationship you once prayed for, you feel yourself slowly fading again. In this honest and empowering blog, Belinda shares her journey of emotional disconnection — and how she began to reconnect without losing the parts of herself she fought so hard to reclaim. If you’re longing for closeness but refuse to disappear to get it, this post is for you.

When You’ve Lost Yourself in a Relationship: How to Reconnect with Who You Are

2025/04/22

It doesn’t happen all at once. Losing yourself in a relationship is quiet… gradual… and by the time you realise it, you’ve already gone silent, not just with others, but with yourself. In this week’s blog, I share the moment that opened my eyes to just how far I had drifted from who I truly was, and the journey back to myself that followed. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth every step. Whether you’re in the middle of your own healing or just beginning to wake up to what you’ve been carrying, this story is for you. ✨ There is a way back to you. And she’s worth fighting for.

The Truth About Losing Yourself in Love (And How to Come Back)

2022/09/18

Have you ever felt yourself disappearing in a relationship, slowly losing your voice, spark, and sense of self? That was my story for over two decades. But healing is possible. And coming back to yourself doesn’t require permission, it just takes one honest moment at a time. If you’ve been giving so much that you’re fading in the process, this one’s for you.