Purpose comes from who we are, not what we do.

“As Viktor Frankl once said, ‘Those who have a ‘why’ to live, can bear with almost any ‘how’.’

These words resonate deeply, echoing the sentiment that purpose is the driving force behind our existence.

But how do we uncover this ‘why’ amidst the noise of everyday life?

Through the process of thoughtful introspection and self-evaluation, we have the opportunity to discover and understand our passions.

This newfound understanding paves the way for a life filled with purpose.

Furthermore, embracing these passions provides a compass that guides our choices and decisions, resulting in a life that genuinely reflects our true selves.

Our sense of purpose is deeply rooted in our identity rather than our activities.

To know who we are, we need to grow in self-awareness, or the world will gladly define us.

The Importance of Self-Awareness in Personal Growth

Self-awareness is the cornerstone of personal development.

It’s about understanding your strengths, weaknesses, emotions, and values.

It’s about knowing what you think and feel and how it influences your actions.

Deeper self-awareness is about knowing your triggers and how to manage them.

Knowing yourself helps you to make informed decisions aligning with your true self.

It’s the difference between living a life by default and living a life by design.

Self-awareness helps identify your personal growth areas and track your progress over time.

Moreover, it helps to recognise the impact of your behaviour on others, thereby improving your relationships.

Self-awareness is not an innate skill.

It is a skill we can learn over time through practice and commitment.

Growing self-awareness is the first step in a lifelong journey of self-improvement that can lead to more meaningful and rewarding experiences as you discover your passion.

And what we are passionate about is a solid indication of our purpose.

The Essence of Passion in a Fulfilling Life

Passion is the fuel that drives us towards fulfilment.

It’s that intense enthusiasm or excitement for something that deeply resonates with us, be it an activity, a cause, or a subject.

Having passion in life gives us a sense of purpose and direction.

It makes the challenges more bearable because we’re working towards something we love.

Discovering your passion can be transformative, turning a mundane existence into a vibrant one filled with joy and enthusiasm.

It’s not just about what you do but how you feel while doing it.

Passion infuses your actions with meaning and energy, leading to a satisfying life.

Exploring How Personality Influences Passions

Your personality has a significant impact on what you are passionate about.

It’s essential to consider how your natural inclinations can steer your passions and vice versa.

Understanding your personality can help you to identify areas where your passion might naturally reside.

Introverts may find passion in solitary pursuits, like writing or researching, while extroverts like activities that involve social interaction, such as teaching or performing.

Similarly, someone who scores high on openness in the Big Five personality traits is likely to pursue creative and innovative passions.

It doesn’t mean you are limited, but it can explain why some activities resonate with you more than others.

Exploring the connection between your personality and your passions also provides a framework for experimenting with new experiences that align with your innate tendencies.

When personality and passion are in sync, the result is often a sense of fulfilment and a conviction that you are exactly where you need to be.

The Role of Self-Assessment in Identifying Personality Type

Self-assessment is a critical step in identifying your personality type.

It involves introspection and honesty about your behaviours, attitudes, and reactions in various situations.

Through self-assessment, you can uncover patterns in your life that point to certain personality traits.

Tools like questionnaires and quizzes can guide you through this process, prompting you to consider aspects of your character you might not have previously examined.

Personality typing systems are tools designed to group various human behaviours and traits into specific types.

These systems, such as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) or the Big Five personality traits, offer frameworks to understand how people think, act, and interact.

While no system is perfect, these tools are vital stepping stones to deeper self-awareness and personal development.

Approach self-assessment with an open mind and a willingness to embrace both your strengths and areas for growth.

Your personality type is not about placing limitations on yourself.

It is about gaining a deeper understanding that can empower you to make choices that align with your true self.

Accurate self-assessment requires time and feedback from those close to you, ensuring a well-rounded view of who you are.

Understanding your personality is a strategic tool in pursuing your passions, equipping you with the self-awareness necessary to make choices that resonate deeply with who you are.

Real-Life Transformation: The Intersection of Personal Experience and Enhanced Self-awareness

As the ink on the divorce papers dried, I found myself on the precipice of a shattered life, grappling with the shards of my broken dreams.

The familiar landscape of my existence had morphed into a maze of pain and uncertainty.

Each day felt like a marathon through a fog of confusion, with the echoes of shattered vows ringing in my ears.

Amidst the wreckage, a relentless question gnawed at my soul: who am I now, stripped bare of the roles and labels that once defined me?

It was a question that demanded answers, sparking a journey of self-discovery that would test the limits of my resilience.

With each step forward, I unearthed buried emotions — the raw ache of betrayal, the bitter taste of regret, and the flickering ember of hope that refused to let go.

In the quiet moments of solitude, I confronted the demons that lurked within, facing the shadows of my past with a courage I never knew I possessed.

Through the tears and triumphs, I forged a path towards healing, tracing the contours of my identity with trembling hands.

And in the crucible of adversity, I discovered a glimmer of purpose — a calling born from my pain to illuminate the path for others stumbling in the darkness of their despair.

Thus began the genesis of ReDefine Relationship Coaching, a beacon of hope forged from the ashes of my shattered dreams.

For in my journey of self-reclamation, I found not only solace but a profound sense of purpose — to guide others towards the light of healing and self-discovery, one courageous step at a time.

Last Thoughts

Self-awareness does more than just clearing the fog of confusion.

It opens up avenues for you to live a purpose-driven life full of passion.

While life might throw you curveballs, remember, these experiences could be stepping stones towards personal growth and discovering the real you.

As you align your passions with your personality, you inspire transformative impacts.

Not just on your life but also create a ripple effect on those around you.

Vibrating authenticity and satisfaction, you start living a fulfilling and meaningful life, contributing positively to the world around you.

So, what step will you take today to deepen your self-awareness and embrace the fullness of who you are? Share your thoughts and intentions in the comments.

Talk again soon,

Belinda Basson — ReDefine Relationship Coach

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